Every human life is a precious gift from God, created in His image and designed for His purposes. Yet in today’s world, the value of life is often debated, dismissed, or diminished. For Christian parents, this presents a unique challenge—and opportunity—to teach our children the truth about the sanctity of life in a culture that so often misunderstands it.
As we approach National Sanctity of Human Life Day on January 22nd, we’re reminded of the importance of honoring life at every stage—from the unborn to the elderly, and in every circumstance. This day offers a meaningful chance to reflect on what it means to uphold the value of life and to teach our children how to stand for life with biblical conviction and Christ-like compassion.
Although we often rightly think of abortion when discussing the sanctity of life, there are other recent examples where we see the sanctity of life being challenged. Just this past week, British lawmakers backed an assisted dying bill which would allow people to legally assist someone to end their life. We also see disregard for life as we witness the numerous school shootings like the most recent one at the Abundant Life Christian School in Madison, Wisconsin where a teen killed and injured fellow classmates and teachers. And even more surprising are situations like the ‘justified killing’ of Brian Thompson, the United Healthcare CEO, where the killer was portrayed by many people as a hero.
As Christian parents living life in front of our children, how should we respond to these situations? How do we answer the complicated questions our kids are asking about them? Most importantly, are we fostering open communication with them so that they feel free to dialogue with us, and actually request our opinions on such matters? Lastly, are we walking out our beliefs and values, recognizing people in tough situations and willingly being the hands and feet of Jesus to them?
One of the most important things to remember as we guide our children through these tough topics, is to create a space for open and honest conversations. Our kids have many questions, and although we might not have all the answers, it’s critical for them to feel free to come to us with anything and everything. Christian Parenting is a great resource for parents looking for podcasts and written articles like Tough Conversations With Our Kids. Focus on the Family also offers great support to families navigating difficult topics and discussions with kids.
Eric Christianson, from Focus on the Family, also reminds us of the importance of “Helping children understand that the sanctity of human life isn’t just about valuing people at the beginning and end of their lives – but also every day in between.” He has written a great article titled Teaching My Children the Sanctity of Life which takes this topic in a slightly different direction and is worth reading and applying! Finally, Empowered Homes is always a good resource for parents. They offer good advice and wise steps for Talking With Your Kids About Sanctity of Life.
In addition to creating space to discuss difficult topics like those mentioned above, there are other ways families can engage children and make this day meaningful:
1. Pray Together as a Family
Set aside time on January 22nd to pray together for the protection of life at all stages. Encourage your children to pray for:
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Mothers facing unplanned pregnancies, that they would feel supported and choose life.
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Leaders and lawmakers to protect life in their decisions.
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Doctors and healthcare workers, that they would advocate for the sanctity of life.
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Compassion and wisdom for those struggling with end-of-life decisions.
Prayer not only centers your family on God’s heart for life but also teaches children the power of intercession.
2. Read and Discuss Scripture About the Sanctity of Life
Use this day to dig into God’s Word with your children. Some verses to study and reflect on include:
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Genesis 1:27 – “So God created man in His own image…”
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Psalm 139:13-16 – “You knit me together in my mother’s womb…”
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Jeremiah 1:5 – “Before I formed you in the womb, I knew you…”
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John 10:10 – “I have come that they may have life, and have it to the full.”
After reading, invite your children to discuss what these verses teach us about how God views life and how we should view it.
3. Support a Local Ministry Together
Find a way to serve or give to a local pregnancy resource center or other ministry. Ideas include:
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Donating diapers, baby clothes, or other supplies to Living Alternatives here in Tyler.
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Writing encouraging notes or assembling care packages for families facing end-of-life challenges or difficult medical decisions.
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Volunteering as a family to serve those in need.
Explain to your children how these small acts of service can demonstrate God’s love and affirm the value of life.
As Christian parents, we have a unique opportunity to make National Sanctity of Human Life Day more than just a calendar event—it can become a time to have intentional conversations, discuss difficult topics, and create opportunities to help people and to grow closer as a family. Through prayer, rich discussions, and even serving a local ministry together, you’re laying Faithful Foundations that will build a spiritual heritage for your family that will last!
